There is a quiet kind of pain that comes from trying to stay in places where you are not truly wanted. It is the pain of over-explaining yourself just to be understood. The pain of trying harder than everyone else just to be noticed. The pain of loving someone who never really chose you in the first place. Many of us have been there. We convince ourselves that if we try a little harder, love a little deeper, or show a little more patience, things will eventually change. We believe that someday the person will finally realize our worth. But the truth is far more difficult to accept. You cannot convince someone to value what they have already decided to overlook. When someone sees you as an option rather than a priority, no amount of effort from you can change that. And the longer you stay in that situation, the more it begins to affect your self-worth. Slowly, you start shrinking yourself just to fit into spaces that were never meant for you. You begin to tolerate the bare minimum...
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