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“It is finished.” – John 19:30  Three words that changed everything. Good Friday, the words themselves carry a weight, a solemnity that resonates through the ages. It's a day marked in history, a day of sorrow and sacrifice yet, a day brimming with  bright hope. It's a day we remember the ultimate act of love, the selfless giving of Christ on the cross, that it wasn't the end but a doorway to eternity. This isn't just a religious holiday; it's a pivotal moment in human history.  While Christmas often echoes with the phrase, “Jesus is the reason for the season,” it’s just as true—perhaps even more profound—on Good Friday. This day marks the ultimate act of love and sacrifice. It’s a day that reminds us not just that Christ came, but why He came. He came to save. He came to reconcile. He came to bear our sins and give us life eternal. It's not a fiction but  a story of redemption, of forgiveness, and of the unwavering love of a divine being for his crea...

Today I want us to dive into an engrossing concept that affects our day to day lives more than we might realize or dare to admit: Th e self-fulfilling prophecy. It might sound complex, but trust me, it’s something we can all relate to in one way or another.  Now lets get into it;  self-fulfilling prophecy is a psychological notion where a belief or expectation about a situation or person causes behaviors that make the belief come true. This belief  disrupt our relationship with people, For instance, if you believe no one will love you or stay in your life, you might push people away—confirming your belief. Likewise, if you believe you are lovable, you act with confidence and attract love. It’s like a circle  that what we expect often shapes what actually happen to us.  This is how the circle works: Expectation:   You have a belief or expectation about a situation or person. Behavior:  This belief influences your behavior, knowingly or subconsciously....

DO YOU KNOW EVERY RELATIONSHIP IS ASEED SOWN? In every relationship, we leave imprints—some positive, some negative. The way we treat our partners affects not just our connection with them but also how they approach relationships in the future. Whether we realize it or not, our words, action, behaviors, and emotional responses become part of their story, influencing their ability to trust, love, and engage with others in the future. Every experience in a relationship contributes to the way someone views love and intimacy. A supportive, healthy partnership can help build confidence, emotional resilience, and a sense of security. On the other hand, consistent neglect, dishonesty, or toxic behaviors can lead to deep-seated fears, insecurities, or trust issues that carry forward into their next relationships. Building or Breaking  Trust  Trust is one of the most delicate aspects of any relationship. If a person experiences betrayal, constant criticism, or emotional manipulation, t...

We all carry memories with us—some sweet, others bitter. Some are etched in our hearts as reminders of beautiful moments, while others linger as shadows from a time we’d rather forget. BAD MEMORIES , whether from past mistakes, lost opportunities, something we wish we could erase or painful experiences, can feel like chains holding us back. They have the power to consume our thoughts, prevent us from moving forward, and keep us stuck in the past. "Have you ever found yourself reliving a regret or a failure over and over again, even though the event happened years ago?" Maybe you catch yourself thinking about a hurtful experience from your past, and no matter how hard you try, it seems impossible to shake. Perhaps you’ve noticed that these memories are shaping your actions today—your decisions, relationships, your choices and even your happiness. It’s as if your past is constantly weighing on you, dictating your present and future. But what if you didn’t have to stay stuck ...

  Heartbreak is a debilitating and consuming emotional experience that can leave a person feeling shattered, lost, less of themselves and vulnerable. When a romantic relationship ends, especially if it was intense or long-term, the emotional impact can be severe and hard to come back from. Emotional turmoil and vulnerability are core factors that suffice after an intense breakup. So before breaking up with someone you should consider what your actions would cause on them, Don't just end things with people on bad terms: instead seek more appropriate ways that would cause less hurt and damage to them.  Heartbreak can cause a chain of reactions, so its essential to handle breakup with care: most persons are fragile and can't handle the aftermath of heartbreak, but your approach to ending things can make it hurt less. THE PAIN OF HEARTBREAK -  Heartbreak can trigger a deep sense of loss, intense grief, sadness and emotional numbness: causing insomnia, changes in appetite, fat...

 The older you get the more accountability is demanded from, not just from people but from yourself too. Life is way much easier in high school or as a teenager, but it doesn't always stay that way. Once you've pasted that stage, their are lots of expectation from you, people expect a lot from you and you expect a lot from yourself too. Well it not the same for everybody, a lot of persons are forced to be adult even before they are ready. But we're not always ready, are we? Adulthood does not come with expectations alone, it comes with lessons, laughter, high demand, yes and no's, success, failures, pain, ambitions, dreams and many more. Not just that, with growth come a lot of increase in standards, and heights you want to attain for yourself, goals you want to achieve and reward you want to give yourself. How well you prepare yourself determine how far you would go. So in all you do time is of essence, "Any time lost cannot be saved" even the b...

I have learnt so far that in relationship or friendship or courtship, no matter how beautiful or smart or sexy or loving or caring or understanding you are, you would never be enough for him, if is not you he wants. So enduring poor treatment from this men. Sis, is not on you that your man is a bitch or a cheater or a liar, stop blaming yourself for the things this men do. if he loves you enough you wont tell him how to treat you. Men do know how to show love, if they love you they wont make you beg for their love. You are " all of that" and you deserve to be loved and treated the way you  want, so don't give into the mentally of the society and settle for less.