Older you!

The older you get the more accountability is demanded from, not just from people but from yourself too.

Life is way much easier in high school or as a teenager, but it doesn't always stay that way. Once you've pasted that stage, their are lots of expectation from you, people expect a lot from you and you expect a lot from yourself too. Well it not the same for everybody, a lot of persons are forced to be adult even before they are ready. But we're not always ready, are we?

Adulthood does not come with expectations alone, it comes with lessons, laughter, high demand, yes and no's, success, failures, pain, ambitions, dreams and many more. Not just that, with growth come a lot of increase in standards, and heights you want to attain for yourself, goals you want to achieve and reward you want to give yourself. How well you prepare yourself determine how far you would go.

So in all you do time is of essence, "Any time lost cannot be saved" even the bible urged us in Eph. 5:15-16 to make best use of our time, and in Eccl. 3 we were told that there's time for everything. Make your time very precious and valuable, invest your time on God, Yourself and The things that add value to your life, cause in all "the end justifies the mean". How well you use your time guarantees the result you would birth.

Lastly there're lot of pressures that comes with this expectations, don't beat yourself up if you're not at where you want to be yet. Don't let the success stories of other weigh you down, cause you don't know what it was like for them few years back. Instead let their testimonies be a driving force for you, effort and time were sacrificed for them to be at the top, so if you putting in the work be rest assured that there would be a result. A workman is worthy of his wages.

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