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A LETTER TO MY EX💔

  

It’s hard to let go, so harder than one can imagine. But that's not the hardest part, the hardest part is knowing when to walk away, for your sake and for the sake of those you love.

People grow, they evolve, their dreams change, and sometimes that means that they have to part ways, no matter how much it hurts.

I still care about you, but I know that we can never go back to what we used to be no matter how much I wish for that.

We were two young people trying to force something that wasn’t meant to last forever. Maybe we was just too young, too different, too caught up in the idea of love instead of focusing on what it really takes to make it work.

We would fight, argue and get so angry at each other that the words we would say in those god forsaken moments cut deeper than we ever cared to admit.

I remember giving everything but it wasn’t enough somehow. And you feeling so exhausted cause you felt you were doing too much.


 


I stayed up all night trying to figure where we lost our way and oh! The night I stayed up crying because I felt we were drifting and didn’t know how to pull us back together.

We weren’t who we thought we were and maybe that cool. Maybe it’s a sign that we weren’t meant to be who we thought we were to each other.

The love we shared was real, I saw that, but most times love is never always enough to keep something alive when it isn’t going in the right direction anymore.

I hope you find peace even though it isn’t with me, I pray you get every good thing in life you desire. And  I hope one day you look back and remember the good memories we had, just like I would, and carry them in your heart as chapters of our lives not the whole story.

I’m letting you go for us both. Wish you the best.💔

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