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  “Kids need their father.” You’ve probably heard this phrase before, or maybe even said it yourself. And if you look at it on the surface, it sounds noble. But it doesn't make sense when you look at it from a different angle. The honest truth is: Kids don’t just need fathers — they need engaged, loving, healthy, carefree, present, consistent role models, and loving example of what a father should be, one  who show up emotionally, mentally, and physically. That can mean: Unconditional love and support Positive discipline and guidance Active involvement in their lives A safe, stable environment Examples of respect, empathy, and responsibility Encouragement to grow into their unique selves Because a title without substance doesn’t nourish a soul. A presence without care can still leave a child feeling abandoned. And an unstable father often passes down wounds instead of wisdom. We don’t talk about this enough. We don’t talk enough about the dads who are physica...

   It’s hard to let go, so harder than one can imagine. But that's not the hardest part, the hardest part is knowing when to walk away, for your sake and for the sake of those you love. People grow, they evolve, their dreams change, and sometimes that means that they have to part ways, no matter how much it hurts. I still care about you, but I know that we can never go back to what we used to be no matter how much I wish for that. We were two young people trying to force something that wasn’t meant to last forever. Maybe we was just too young, too different, too caught up in the idea of love instead of focusing on what it really takes to make it work. We would fight, argue and get so angry at each other that the words we would say in those god forsaken moments cut deeper than we ever cared to admit. I remember giving everything but it wasn’t enough somehow. And you feeling so exhausted cause you felt you were doing too much.   I stayed up all night trying to figure where ...

“It is finished.” – John 19:30  Three words that changed everything. Good Friday, the words themselves carry a weight, a solemnity that resonates through the ages. It's a day marked in history, a day of sorrow and sacrifice yet, a day brimming with  bright hope. It's a day we remember the ultimate act of love, the selfless giving of Christ on the cross, that it wasn't the end but a doorway to eternity. This isn't just a religious holiday; it's a pivotal moment in human history.  While Christmas often echoes with the phrase, “Jesus is the reason for the season,” it’s just as true—perhaps even more profound—on Good Friday. This day marks the ultimate act of love and sacrifice. It’s a day that reminds us not just that Christ came, but why He came. He came to save. He came to reconcile. He came to bear our sins and give us life eternal. It's not a fiction but  a story of redemption, of forgiveness, and of the unwavering love of a divine being for his crea...

Today I want us to dive into an engrossing concept that affects our day to day lives more than we might realize or dare to admit: Th e self-fulfilling prophecy. It might sound complex, but trust me, it’s something we can all relate to in one way or another.  Now lets get into it;  self-fulfilling prophecy is a psychological notion where a belief or expectation about a situation or person causes behaviors that make the belief come true. This belief  disrupt our relationship with people, For instance, if you believe no one will love you or stay in your life, you might push people away—confirming your belief. Likewise, if you believe you are lovable, you act with confidence and attract love. It’s like a circle  that what we expect often shapes what actually happen to us.  This is how the circle works: Expectation:   You have a belief or expectation about a situation or person. Behavior:  This belief influences your behavior, knowingly or subconsciously....

DO YOU KNOW EVERY RELATIONSHIP IS ASEED SOWN? In every relationship, we leave imprints—some positive, some negative. The way we treat our partners affects not just our connection with them but also how they approach relationships in the future. Whether we realize it or not, our words, action, behaviors, and emotional responses become part of their story, influencing their ability to trust, love, and engage with others in the future. Every experience in a relationship contributes to the way someone views love and intimacy. A supportive, healthy partnership can help build confidence, emotional resilience, and a sense of security. On the other hand, consistent neglect, dishonesty, or toxic behaviors can lead to deep-seated fears, insecurities, or trust issues that carry forward into their next relationships. Building or Breaking  Trust  Trust is one of the most delicate aspects of any relationship. If a person experiences betrayal, constant criticism, or emotional manipulation, t...

We all carry memories with us—some sweet, others bitter. Some are etched in our hearts as reminders of beautiful moments, while others linger as shadows from a time we’d rather forget. BAD MEMORIES , whether from past mistakes, lost opportunities, something we wish we could erase or painful experiences, can feel like chains holding us back. They have the power to consume our thoughts, prevent us from moving forward, and keep us stuck in the past. "Have you ever found yourself reliving a regret or a failure over and over again, even though the event happened years ago?" Maybe you catch yourself thinking about a hurtful experience from your past, and no matter how hard you try, it seems impossible to shake. Perhaps you’ve noticed that these memories are shaping your actions today—your decisions, relationships, your choices and even your happiness. It’s as if your past is constantly weighing on you, dictating your present and future. But what if you didn’t have to stay stuck ...

  Heartbreak is a debilitating and consuming emotional experience that can leave a person feeling shattered, lost, less of themselves and vulnerable. When a romantic relationship ends, especially if it was intense or long-term, the emotional impact can be severe and hard to come back from. Emotional turmoil and vulnerability are core factors that suffice after an intense breakup. So before breaking up with someone you should consider what your actions would cause on them, Don't just end things with people on bad terms: instead seek more appropriate ways that would cause less hurt and damage to them.  Heartbreak can cause a chain of reactions, so its essential to handle breakup with care: most persons are fragile and can't handle the aftermath of heartbreak, but your approach to ending things can make it hurt less. THE PAIN OF HEARTBREAK -  Heartbreak can trigger a deep sense of loss, intense grief, sadness and emotional numbness: causing insomnia, changes in appetite, fat...