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Everyone has vulnerability.

Everyone has vulnerability, no matter how big or small of a person you're. Some persons are just good at hiding their vulnerability, so you don't get to see pass the facade they put up. Some people are also harnessing their own vulnerability and making it the best part of them.

Having vulnerability is not a bad thing, having vulnerability makes you human. You can't shy away from your vulnerability because they're what makes you special, they make you unique and distinguish you from others. Not everyone is comfortable with their vulnerability and tend to hide it cause not everybody understands those vulnerability.

Yea, not everyone understands, but you can turn those vulnerability to be the best thing about you. Let me give you an instance; 

There is this cast "Klaus" from "vampires diary's and The original". They're TV series that intertwines together. At first a lot of people hated Klaus Cause of his thoughtless and disastrous deeds but he love for "Caroline" became the best part of him. That was his vulnerability, and he didn't shy away from it, People saw that he was able to show love and soon he became everyone's favorite, including mine. 

What I'm saying is that those vulnerability can be what people like most about you but if you are uncomfortable with it, you can turn your vulnerability to the best part of you and soon you would see that you've overcome them and they wouldn't define you anymore. Shying away from your vulnerability is not going to solve your problems, it only makes you insecure, self aware for no reason, timid and causes low self esteem. 

You have to face this vulnerability head to head and don't let them define you. It's takes time, efforts, tears, sweat, sacrifices etc but it's all worth it. There never a problem without an answer, but can you pay the price. 

In breaking out of your vulnerability or maximizing it to your advantage 

  • You have to discover your vulnerability and seek solutions to them: For instance you gat a weird shape and you're not comfy with itb wear clothes that makes you stand out or hit the gym, you to stutter, dedicate yourself to reading- aloud- ( it medically proven that voice exercise and reading helps in reducing stuttering). You've discovered your problems but are you willing to do something about it or you're willing to whine like a baby.
  • Invest in about yourself: you gatta invest in yourself, spiritual, physically, mentally, emotionally, academically. It goes a long way in changing you perspective yourself, it makes you put yourself on a pedestal. Because most of the times we're not equipped in this aspect properly and we over think and see things that are not there, we see weakness in ourselves and other don't see it, but if you invest in yourself it helps beat self doubt.
  • Yearn for growth: Always desire to grow, there's a saying that goes "if you don't desire it, you can have it". Honestly you can't have what you don't deserve, if you want to move past your failures you should desire success or u ain't going nowhere.
  • Lastly, Discipline yourself: It takes discipline to start a thing and finish it, it takes discipline to kill habit, it takes discipline to grow, it takes discipline to motivate yourself.
Your vulnerability can either make you or break, it all determine how you use them. Don't let this things hold your shine, work on them and be the best you that you can be.

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