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Letting Go

Letting go is one thing everybody finds difficult, no matter your position.
And we fail to understand that life is about finding the balance between holding on and letting go. 
We find ourselves in situations we don't like because we refuse to let go even when we know it the right thing to do. We find it difficult to let go in friendships and relationships, because we believe we've invested a lot of our emotions, time, and energy, and the more we invest, the harder it is to let go. I know how hard it is, but ask yourself is it doing you any good, the lying, disrespect, cheating, heartbreaks and all are they worth it.
Often times we turn a blind eye to this issues with hope that they might change, or start to treat you better, but as time goes on the damage becomes more severe and you find yourself stuck at a crossroad not knowing whether to let go or not.

You save yourself a lot of pain and mental troubles when you know when to let go, don't let the fear of being alone rob you off genuine peace. 

Friendships, courtship, associations and relationships are meant to bring out the best in and not make you psycho. When you feel you re not appreciated by your friends or spouse, talk things out and if that option don't sail its always better to talk the exit than put your mental health at risk. It seems hard but it's worth every penny 
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